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Do You Lead Multiple Teams? Yes, You Do…

Glad to have long time friend, Daniel McKenzie, guest post today. He is a tortured soul. An Alabama fan in ministry in Tennessee. He’s a ten-year ministry leader. Here’s his post:

I am responsible for leading over 10 different leadership teams comprised mostly of volunteers in my position as Minister of Youth.  I have leadership teams for different programs and areas of the church that I lead (that extend well beyond working with teenagers.)  As one might guess, it’s sort of tricky leading that many groups, going in that many directions.  As my leadership roles and teams have expanded, regular meetings are not logistically practical.  Along the way I learned tough lessons about which meetings worked and why they impacted the sense of team.

When I arrived on the scene over 10 years ago, most of my leadership teams were accustomed to having monthly meetings. Over time, meeting attendance began to drop off and I realized that not all parts of our meetings had value to everyone.  My leaders were committed to what part they were involved in but didn’t have time or interest to identify with the whole.  It’s a hard truth to grasp sometimes that other people may not be as passionate about the same things that we are passionate about.  It made perfect sense to me that a Bible Study teacher would be keenly interested in the dilemmas other volunteers were having with snacks.  After all, I cared deeply about every moving part!

How could we build and be a team if we didn’t all sit around a table once a month?

1. Team is developed through shared purpose not shared information.  For volunteer teams, a healthy team concept is built when the “coach” has respect for the time, energy, and interests of its members.

I began to think about our leadership structures and sense of team in relation to the parts of a wheel.  Wheels have hubs, spokes, and the wheel itself.  The hub is the core of stability and is the one part directly connected to the bigger picture of the vehicle.  The spokes connect the hub to the wheel.  The wheel itself is where the vehicle connects with the road.

My early attempts at team leadership had every volunteer leader taking on the role of every part of the wheel – everyone was the hub, the spokes, and the tire all at once.  When I began to see my role with a few others as the hub, new communication strategies as the spokes, and my volunteer leaders as solely serving in the role of the wheel my teams were much more effective and enjoyable for all parts!

2. I have just a few leaders that help me hash out vision and planning

Rather than having monthly meetings, my teams might have one meeting per year or semester.  We mainly communicate purpose during these meetings and only spend minimal time with details; and only the sort of details where it’s just nice to be in the same room to coordinate.  From there I spend my time communicating details through emails, texts or calls – my new spokes.  My leadership teams only know the details that they really need to know.  This is much more efficient for my leaders and surprisingly, this is more efficient for me too.  With meetings you have two bulky parts –  the time planning and the time actually leading the meeting.  With email, my planning is written out and my “leading” is a simple mouse click!  So now when my teams perform their leadership roles – when the rubber meets the road – our wheels have much less mileage on them.

These adjustments in my team leadership model, have given me the ability to lead several teams at once and helped build a more positive atmosphere for my volunteers leaders.

Daniel McKenzie has served as Minister of Youth at Central Baptist Church in Johnson City, TN since 2000 where he also helps lead in college, young adult, family and contemporary worship ministries.  Daniel enjoys sports, cooking, writing music, and playing several different musical instruments. He is married to DeAnne and has 3 boys.

Lead Like a Chick Flick

 

Take thirty seconds and list your top five favorite movies. Now, compare your list to mine:
1. The Shawshank Redemption
2. Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade
3. Hoosiers
4. Slumdog Millionaire
5. Notting Hill

I’ve made confession. Did you catch it? #5. It is what it is. I’m 6’2″. Coach all of my sons little league teams. Eat meat topped with bacon. Dislike ballet and on occasion, enjoy a good chick flick. As someone who loves leading teams let me say…If you want to grow as a Team Leader, than you need to watch a good chick flick. What’s that now? Yes, chick flicks

Is there a greater skill for a leader to master than their ability to understand people? Chick flicks will help you do this. Download #5. Put on a comfy robe. Grab some tissue. Butter some popcorn. Get ready to take some notes. Here are three things chick flicks teach us about Team Leadership
1. Fate brought you together. Figure out why.

In every good chick flick there is a scene early in the film that rallies the hero to heroin and endears audience to story. It is the, meant to be scene. It ensures that the audience understands that this couple, although apart, must join together so that a.) the world will not blow up b.) the kingdom will survive c.) true love will prevail against all odds. This moment connects us to first to characters, then to story

The meant to be scene is uniquely important to Team Leadership. Your team must feel connected to you and then to your process. Remember the saying, ‘people don’t quit jobs, they quit people’? This is especially true for the Millennial generation that is filling up the workplace with relational expectations. Every team member, regardless of generation, needs to know that their placement on your team is meant to be.

Tell the story of their purpose to the team. Explain their role repeatedly. Make your team feel more important than end results. Get This: Chick Flicks are character driven, so are your teams. Good leaders gain loyal followers when they regularly engage their team in role, purpose and process discussions.
2. Expect conflict. Fight for the relationship.
There is always a pre-break up scene in every good chick flick. Before the hero and heroin commit their love to one another they end it. It usually sounds like a.) we are from different worlds b.) we are too young c.) I’m a vampire and you are not. This middle section of the movie propels story via conflict. It causes us to pick sides. More importantly, it causes us to root for the couple.
The hero exists to save, rescue and express his love at any cost. You are no different. Stop looking to them to make you feel better about yourself and step up to the humble task of relational leadership. Stop using language that expresses ego, fatigue and boredom. This scripting makes you seem disengaged from relationships.
Too many leaders assume that this is endearing because it gains temporary sentiment. It’s not. It’s weak. It causes pre-break up. No one likes a wimpy lead character. Like a chick flick hero, speak boldly to the story of your team. Declare your loyalty to them in days, months and years. Preach longevity. Get this: Employee’s trend short term these days. Still, focus on building long term loyalty that exists after employee turn over. Good leaders gain loyal followers when relationships are securely built over time.
3. Wear good shoes. There will be running.
There is a track meet at the end of every good chick flick. Running through a city. Running through an airport. Running through a field. Running. Running. Running. Here’s a short list to prove my point:
Notting Hill: running to a press junket.
Pretty Woman: running up a fire escape.
Sleepless in Seattle: Running to the Empire State building.
Titanic: Running off a ship.
Can you imagine the hero running away from the heroin while violins play the victory swoon? Never happens. Run towards and not away from as a leader. Be the definitive pursuer of your team in, around, and through barriers. This will endear you to your team.
Pursue them by making sure that everyone feels valid. Do this by creating an atmosphere of support through verbal communication. Allow patience. Get  this: You will do more slowly together, than quickly in isolation. Help your team express appreciation for each other. Good leaders know they are an effective relational leader when other department employee’s ask you if you have any needs in yours.
How are you doing as a relational leader?

Can You Spell Team?

Team. There is nothing better than leading one or being effectively led while on one. If you lead a team of at least five people I want you to be a guest blogger on this site. The rules are simple and look like this:

  • The subject of the post must be Team Leadership.
  • The post must tell us the practical side of your work.
  • The post should teach us from failure as well as success ie… be honest.

Once you submit your post, I reserve full editing rights (grammar, spelling and, length if needed). Your submission is your agreement with these rules.

Remember these things when writing:   

1. Keep your post under 650 words.

2. Your post must be original.

3. Your post cannot appear elsewhere.

4. You agree to have your post linked/appear on Twitter and Facebook.

Email all posts to erik@legendlabs.org I will respond within one week with a simple yes or no. Please include in your post a short bio, twitter name, and pic if you wish.

Thanks. Looking forward to seeing how you lead teams.

How to Get Toilet Paper Out of Your Tree

I am a former 15 year veteran of Student Ministry. Some people call it Youth Group. I hate that term. It’d take another post to understand why. In 15 years my house has been the subject of pranks. One morning I woke up and there was a goat tied to a tree in the front yard. I live in the ‘burbs. Then they forked my lawn. Google it. They post-it noted my car. All of it. No that glue doesn’t come off easy. They Christmas wrapped my car. They shaving creamed a message on my garage. They snuck into  my house while I was on vacation and rearranged the whole house. The living room was in the kitchen. The kitchen was in a bedroom and so on… The thing I actually dislike the most is when they toilet paper my house. Its the most boring. The easiest to clean up. So here is how you clean it up:

  1. Pick up all the stuff off the ground you can roll
  2. Rake up all the other big pieces…if it gets dirt in it it actually helps.
  3. Get out your hose. Turn on high. Blast everything else out of the trees. TP dissolves in water.
  4. Take a picture. Maybe this should have been #1.

That’s pretty much it. Not rocket science. Imagine you could do the same thing in your life with interruptions. What if you had a simple strategy for reacting to a mess.  Maybe you could use the TP method?

  1. Respond to what you know must be done first. Eliminate clutter. The big pieces. Start with the easiest of the hardest.
  2. Get some tools to help you cope with what remains of the clutter. Tools look like people, God, a Bible, counselors, friends, mentors…
  3. Have some fun with the problem. Blast away and play. (yep the hose part)
  4. Remember your trial for it is sure to find you in some form again.

If you are in a mess now. Let me know. The best thing I can do for you is to pray for you.

How do you handle a surprise mess?

Boba Fett. $15K. Really?

Do you have an extra $15,000 available? Didn’t think so. However. If you by some chance answered yes than I have a deal for you. You can buy a never released prototype Boba Fett action figure from Star Wars. You remember those little toys. Han Solo, Luke Sywalker, C3PO, Darth Vader – the gangs all here. The beauty of the prototype is the real firing missile! Only the coolest bounty hunter of the future has that. Most models sold did not have the missile due to potential choking hazards. Still interested? Heres a picture of 15k added value:

Value is a crazy thing. Today, instead of telling me why this is sooo worth the investment, think about things in your life that have value. Measure them using these three questions:

1. How will this (thing, person, object, ideology etc…) help my community to flourish?

 2. How will this help my faith to strengthen?

 3. How will this bring glory to God and not me? 

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. – Philippians 2:3 and 4

 

 The guy who bought a similar prototype did so at Comic Con for 17K. 17. Yes. Se-ven-teeeen. Thousand. Dollars. Here’s what he said post purchase, “my girlfriend is going to kill me”. Well, probably not kill but pretty sure she is re-valuing her profile at match.com right about now. Today, know what you value and why. Here’s my working standard measuring tool. Not perfect. Not always met. But in place:

1. Family over work.

2. People over programming.

3. Humility over pride. Still working this one out :)

4. Bonus: Han Solo over Boba Fett ;)

How do you measure value?

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