Lead Like a Chick Flick
I’ve made confession. Did you catch it? #5. It is what it is. I’m 6’2″. Coach all of my sons little league teams. Eat meat topped with bacon. Dislike ballet and on occasion, enjoy a good chick flick. As someone who loves leading teams let me say…If you want to grow as a Team Leader, than you need to watch a good chick flick. What’s that now? Yes, chick flicks
In every good chick flick there is a scene early in the film that rallies the hero to heroin and endears audience to story. It is the, meant to be scene. It ensures that the audience understands that this couple, although apart, must join together so that a.) the world will not blow up b.) the kingdom will survive c.) true love will prevail against all odds. This moment connects us to first to characters, then to story
How to Get Toilet Paper Out of Your Tree
I am a former 15 year veteran of Student Ministry. Some people call it Youth Group. I hate that term. It’d take another post to understand why. In 15 years my house has been the subject of pranks. One morning I woke up and there was a goat tied to a tree in the front yard. I live in the ‘burbs. Then they forked my lawn. Google it. They post-it noted my car. All of it. No that glue doesn’t come off easy. They Christmas wrapped my car. They shaving creamed a message on my garage. They snuck into my house while I was on vacation and rearranged the whole house. The living room was in the kitchen. The kitchen was in a bedroom and so on… The thing I actually dislike the most is when they toilet paper my house. Its the most boring. The easiest to clean up. So here is how you clean it up:
- Pick up all the stuff off the ground you can roll
- Rake up all the other big pieces…if it gets dirt in it it actually helps.
- Get out your hose. Turn on high. Blast everything else out of the trees. TP dissolves in water.
- Take a picture. Maybe this should have been #1.
That’s pretty much it. Not rocket science. Imagine you could do the same thing in your life with interruptions. What if you had a simple strategy for reacting to a mess. Maybe you could use the TP method?
- Respond to what you know must be done first. Eliminate clutter. The big pieces. Start with the easiest of the hardest.
- Get some tools to help you cope with what remains of the clutter. Tools look like people, God, a Bible, counselors, friends, mentors…
- Have some fun with the problem. Blast away and play. (yep the hose part)
- Remember your trial for it is sure to find you in some form again.
If you are in a mess now. Let me know. The best thing I can do for you is to pray for you.
How do you handle a surprise mess?
Boba Fett. $15K. Really?
Do you have an extra $15,000 available? Didn’t think so. However. If you by some chance answered yes than I have a deal for you. You can buy a never released prototype Boba Fett action figure from Star Wars. You remember those little toys. Han Solo, Luke Sywalker, C3PO, Darth Vader – the gangs all here. The beauty of the prototype is the real firing missile! Only the coolest bounty hunter of the future has that. Most models sold did not have the missile due to potential choking hazards. Still interested? Heres a picture of 15k added value:
Value is a crazy thing. Today, instead of telling me why this is sooo worth the investment, think about things in your life that have value. Measure them using these three questions:
1. How will this (thing, person, object, ideology etc…) help my community to flourish?
2. How will this help my faith to strengthen?
3. How will this bring glory to God and not me?
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. – Philippians 2:3 and 4
The guy who bought a similar prototype did so at Comic Con for 17K. 17. Yes. Se-ven-teeeen. Thousand. Dollars. Here’s what he said post purchase, “my girlfriend is going to kill me”. Well, probably not kill but pretty sure she is re-valuing her profile at match.com right about now. Today, know what you value and why. Here’s my working standard measuring tool. Not perfect. Not always met. But in place:
1. Family over work.
2. People over programming.
3. Humility over pride. Still working this one out :)
4. Bonus: Han Solo over Boba Fett ;)
How do you measure value?
